Friday, March 26, 2021

A Close Look at Angelic Pretty's Dream Marine JSK

This isn’t so much a real “review” as much as it is just a closer look at this dress! Whenever I was interested in a dress, I would also want to see more images of it, or people just talking about  their thoughts on it. I also wanted to see more details of the dress - dresses always look so much better in real life, so it’s nice to see information about it online as well.

Today’s review is going to be Angelic Pretty’s Dream Marine

I have the white colorway, in the JSK cut.  Personally I got the white colorway because I think it makes the print pop out the most. I think navy would be in second place for best colorway.  I originally wanted the OP, but the tiered skirt of the JSK cut won me over. I’m always a sucker for a tiered dress ♡.  Something about them just looks so princessy!

The Dress

Here’s a first look at the dress.

The dress has sparkly chiffon, similar to the one AP used in Fruity Lemon.

The shells are so pretty, and I really love it as a simple, marine motif! The lace on each of the tiers is also very simple, but I think it is effective for this style of dress. The lace almost mimics the scallops you see in the shells.

The bow is really large, and has pearls droplet beads on the ends (shown below).  There are also pearl droplet beads on the ends of the waist ties. I’m not a giant fan of the material of the big bow, and I almost wish it was not so shiny.

Thoughts on the Dress

I really, really like this dress! It’s very airy, and I think it works well as a summer dress. The chiffon was a good choice for a summery vibe. The only thing negative I have would be that this dress feels a teensy bit itchy. I am someone with sensitive skin, and the chiffon halter neck can feel uncomfortable on the skin. Other people with sensitive skin may want to that this into consideration, but to be honest, it doesn’t bother me that much. It’s enough for me to tolerate.

Other Info

Here is the Lolibrary Info for the Dream Marine JSK!

This dress was rereleased a couple times, and came in a skirt and OP cut, as well as the JSK of course. The first release came in more solid colors such as white, navy, sax, and lavender. There was another release which was called “Brilliant Color” which had gradient colors, and came in pink x sax, navy, and lavender. In a 2018 rerelease for Dream Marine, it came in two new colors - black, and green.

I really love this dress, and it’s a great addition to my collection of marine themed dresses :D I really like it as a non-border print type of dress. I usually prefer border prints over these, but this one particularly caught my eye. What’s even better is that I like how it looks on me despite being a high waisted dress.

Thank you for reading!
Lady Grey 

Friday, March 12, 2021

Virtual Meet Ice Breaker Questions

For some of us, meets have mostly gone virtual, and sometimes that leads to awkward moments of silence. Here are 50 prompts and questions you can use for your next meet to keep the energy going:

  1. When and how did you discover lolita?

  2. What style did you first fall in love with?

  3. How has your style evolved from when you started to now?

  4. What is a style you like, but were too afraid to try for any reason? 

  5. What is your dream meetup?

  6. Do you remember the first time you've seen a brand piece in person? What was it?

  7. If you are not a lonelita, describe your first meetup? Last in-person meetup?

  8. What was the best compliment you got from a stranger while out in lolita?

  9. What was the weirdest/worst comment received while out in lolita?

  10. What is your current style/wardrobe goal(s)?

  11. If you could design a print, would it be?

  12. Show us your favorite main piece.

  13. Show us your favorite accessory.

  14. What main piece do you wear the most? 

  15. What main piece have you worn the least?

  16. Show us your oldest main piece (either by age of the piece or longest you've had it).

  17. Show us your latest purchase(s).

  18. What was the weirdest thing you've done while wearing the fashion? 

  19. What were the best and worst meetups you've been to?

  20. Name a pet peeve you have with the fashion.

  21. Name your favorite thing that you love about the fashion.

  22. How long does it normally take for you to get ready in lolita/ouji?

  23. What's something about you that seems very "un-lolita"? (Ex: hobbies, interests).

  24. Name a very "lifestyler" hobby or interest.

  25. If any of us were to visit your hometown right now (assuming there's no pandemic), where would you take us for a meetup?

  26. What are your non-wardrobe lolita goals? (Ex: meeting Misako, going to Japan, hosting your first meet, going to a lolita con, etc.).

  27. How do you dress outside of lolita/ouji?

  28. Do you have an in-person meetup plan when things are safe again?

  29. What is your favorite afternoon tea menu item?

  30. Do you have a favorite kind of tea or tea brand?

  31. What brand tea party have you attended? If you've yet to attend, what brand tea party would you like to go to the most?

  32. What dead brand would you like to see come back from the grave?

  33. Show us a "red-headed stepchild" wardrobe piece. 

  34. If you could give one lolita advice to your babbylita self, what would it be?

  35. Name one thing that would be different about your life had you never got into lolita.

  36. How does your family feel about the fashion? 

  37. What is the most common motif in your wardrobe?

  38. What color(s) dominate your wardrobe?

  39. What's your favorite lolita related video on YouTube?

  40. Who is your favorite lolita YouTuber?

  41. If you were to do a PowerPoint presentation on anything you're most interested in outside of lolita, what would it be?

  42. How have you obtained most of your wardrobe? (Ex; second hand, taobao, BNWT, handmade, indie brands.).

  43. What normie celebrity would you love to see wearing lolita or ouji? 

  44. If you had to start your wardrobe all over again, how would you go about it? 

  45. What is your “getting ready in lolita” routine like?

  46. Have you ever gotten anyone interested in wearing the fashion?

  47. What is your favorite era in fashion?

  48. What is a lolita trend you wish came back in fashion?

  49. Show us your favorite coord (whether your own or someone else’s).

  50. Describe your dream coord. 

Feel free to use any or all of these for your next meetup (whether in-person or over a video chat). You can randomize the questions or go through the list. Let us know in the comments if you have any suggestions for ice-breaker prompts and questions, or if you found this list useful!
Thanks for reading!

Friday, March 5, 2021

Kamikaze Girls and Versailles: Part 3

In the story Shimotsuma Monogatari, renamed Kamikaze Girls in the English translation, the main character Momoko expresses her adoration for 18th century life in Versailles. I often revisit this novella and the movie when I want to get in the lolita spirit, but as a self-proclaimed history buff, I tend to have a hard time getting through the parts where Momoko imagines what life was like. In this series, I’ll do my best to dispel and explain the bits that Momoko, and to that extent, Novala Takemoto got right – and wrong about life in 18th century France.
On page 8, Momoko explains that people of the Rococo period would style themselves in the most outrageous manner - tightening one’s corset in order to make their waists impossibly tiny, so that when they had even the smallest shock, they’d have to be carried off to recover - which was considered attractively lady-like. They would also pile their hair higher and higher with elaborate styles. It would have taken their servants hours and hours to help their mistresses get ready. Their hair styles doubled their height, so that even on their knees, they’d be unable to get through the door.

There’s so much wrong about Momoko’s assumptions, but from reading on, I gathered that this misinformation is the author’s way of explaining Momoko’s philosophy in which sometimes being reasonable doesn’t guarantee happiness. That being said, let’s learn about what ladies’ fashion was really like in pre-Revolutionary 18th century France.

Corsets and corset-like pieces have had a long history with evidence dating back since Minoan times, but when we’re talking about 18th century France, these structured undergarments weren’t always called corsets, but rather they’re referred to as “stays”. The shape of this garment was made so that the torso appeared conical and flat while pushing the bust up and the back erect.
Stays 1770 – 1790 red damask, Courtesy of Victoria & Albert Museum.
Unlike what Hollywood wants you to think about corsets, these structured undergarments weren’t terribly uncomfortable. Women, and sometimes men, of all classes wore them between a chemise or shift (a cotton or linen undershirt that protects the outer clothes from oils and sweat) and their outer clothes. An overwhelming majority of the population were from the working class. People who wore the corset or stays found them useful in supporting their backs from back-breaking work, and they would have been made with more comfortable fabrics such as leather. Wealthier wearers may use more luxurious fabrics, such as decorative silk, but it still would have been relatively comfortable due to clothes being bespoken to fit the wearer and made with natural materials (as synthetic dyes and fabrics weren’t invented yet).

Tight-lacing was heard of, but only practised by the privileged few, and would have been difficult to achieve because metal eyelets were not yet invented in order to pull the lacing tight enough without breaking. Poorer wearers couldn’t afford a servant to help them into clothes and generally corseted themselves from the front with a garment called “jumps” by spiral lacing in enough to fit the body. Jumps were made with less boning thus were softer and more comfortable for everyday wear while providing breast support. The comfort and convenience of this garment proved quite popular among women and the medical community of the time who criticised heavily boned back-lacing corsets for being less healthy.
Courtesy of the Metropolitan Museum
It’s very likely that images depicting an aristocratic woman being tightened in her corset with assistance were satirical bits from men who were making fun of fashionable women or an image of sexual fantasy, however, it is true that the wealthier the person was, the more cumbersome the clothes got. For further reading on 18th century stays, click here.
John Collett
Tight Lacing, or Fashion Before Ease [1777]
© Lewis Walpole Library, Yale University
While one of the main points of corsetry is to mold the body in a socially attractive shape, the appearance of an impossibly tiny waist is an illusion of many components, including a stomacher, pannier, bum roll, and many petticoats. A stomacher refers to a decorative triangular panel of stiffened fabric which would have been pinned onto the front of the corset.
An 18th century stomacher. Pins were applied on the side tabs.

Here what appears to be a travel neck pillow tied around the waist is a bum roll or Farthingale. This contraption has been around as early as the 16th century and helps add volume under the skirts. The bum roll was a casing stuffed with cotton, wool, or other fillings (known as bombast), and was sometimes wired. This was mostly used for robe à l’Anglaise (English dress) and robe à la Polonaise (Polish dress) which featured a softer, rounder silhouette that was more practical for everyday wear.
Robe à l’Anglaise
Robe à la Polonaise
The extreme 18th century silhouette of a wide skirt is credited to the invention of the side hoops or pannier, which is French for basket. In spite of the French popularity, its origin is Spanish and was developed after the popularity of the Spanish farthingale. It’s usually made of wood, cane, metal, or whale-bone, and made to widen the sides of the skirts to create an illusion of wide hips and a tiny waist, but flatten the front.
Hoop petticoat or pannier, England, 1750
Fashion historians argue that this garment was not a novelty and was worn throughout the 18th century, but width and changes in silhouette occurred over time. These were worn among all classes, however, poorer ladies would have worn panniers that were smaller and less cumbersome and/or made of poorer quality. When these were at the height of fashion, the wealthiest of ladies were known to strut the court in panniers as wide as seven feet!
Friend: We’re having a little get-together, dress casual
Robe à la Française, 1750s
Another extreme look from this time is of course the ostentatiously tall hair-dos. Unlike the use of the panniers, this was a short-lived trend practised by wealthier circles who could afford to sit down a few hours with a hair dresser. The look was achieved through an accoutrement of pomade and powder, wigs (though only worn as add ons as whole wigs were reserved for men), hair rats, and toupés, hair cushions, pins, and a fair amount of teasing. The pomade was made of animal fat that would have been washed and perfumed to remove the meaty scent. It would have been coated onto hair strands and then powdered, usually with a wheat or potato based starch.

A chemical reaction would occur and cause the hair to be easily sculptable. The hair cushion had something of a ski-slope shape. This would have helped support the ornaments on the hair, as well as made the hair look much bigger from the back. If you’d like to learn more about hair and makeup in the 18th century, I highly suggest pausing to watch this video filmed by Bernadette Banner, featuring Lauren Stowell and Abby Cox of The American Duchess. For a more in-depth look into this period’s views on beauty, read The American Duchess Guide to 18th Century Beauty: 40 Projects for Period-Accurate Hairstyles, Makeup and Accessories.

It’s difficult to find evidence that those who wore wide-crinolines and huge hair ever experienced being stuck outside of the party they spent hours getting ready for. I do believe that Novala/Momoko’s assumptions would have been mostly incorrect. For one, this was a short -lived fashion from the mid to late 1770s, mostly practised by the more daring ladies at the court trying to outdo each other, including Queen Marie-Antoinette. Palaces and manors would have had large doors anyway, and the most elegant way of entering a more difficult doorway would involve sweeping into the room sideways.

This period also saw a lot of architectural sprawl. Parklands were a popular destination to see and be seen, and naturally, many social events would have taken place out of doors. If you did an image search of 18th century hair, it is likely that you’ve found satirical images of mostly women with hair of impossible heights. There were rumours of Marie-Antoinette’s hair being as tall as 36 inches, evident in her mother’s letters to her, but generally the hair would have been styled about ¼ to ½ of the length of one’s face.

Hairstyling was more susceptible to trends, but for the most part was not very extreme. In the first half of the 18th century, hair was usually styled closer to the head. A popular hairdo of the time involved tight curls closely pinned to the head, and was referred to as “tête de mouton'' or sheep’s head. Powdering and pomading was primarily part of the French toilette that didn’t really take the rest of Europe by a storm until the 1770s. Once the revolution took hold, gravity defying hair quickly fell out of favor for the “hedgehog” in which the hair was frizzy and wider than it was tall with tails at the base (sort of like an 18th century mullet, if you will).

What do you think about French Rococo fashion? Would you ever try wearing a tall hairdo and wide pannier? If you have worn a history accurate costume, tell us your experiences in the comments below.

Thanks for reading!
More sources and further readings:

- Meet Marie-Antoinette’s personal dresser, Rose Bertin
- Watch how 18th century ladies got dressed
- On 18th century panniers and gender
- Part One on Baroque vs Rococo
- Part Two on Prolific Ladies of 19th Century Versailles